PacLove, I don't know for sure if my letters were used against me. I think what hurt me the most was I make much more than my W, she has had a couple of surgeries the last couple of months, and the judge saw discrepanices in my financial decleration. So she ruled HEAVILY in my W's favor.

But, I will say this, everything I had been doing the last couple of months she did try to use against me.

I'm NOT going to change. I hope to God I don't get to be this vindictive a**hole towards her. I now know every word and action I do will have to be with the understanding "anything you say can and will be used against you in a court of law".


M 55 W 52
MR 32 T 34+
D29
BD May 8, 2016 - She moved out
ILYBNILWY May 15 (Through email)
No EA/PA
August 23 - DB used against me in every way
Divorce July 18, 2017 - Life is getting better every day