That really bites! Your thread is scaring me now... we haven't talked D at all, but when it did come about in conversations months ago W said she wanted to go the co-operative route, I'm worried now that my letters and behaviors will backfire with me too.
Me: 40 W: 45 T: 13, M: 11 1 D: 9
Suspect A 6/15 ILBINILWY 8/15, and 3/16 EA/PA Discovered 3/16 EA admitted 3/16 W Moved out 4/16 W opens R talk and says A over 1/17