RDS - man o man - I'm SO sorry to hear this. As the ancient philosopher might say "She got the gold mine - I got the shaft".
Stay strong, while your credit card still works go get a big pizza, a case of beer and sit around in your underwear for a change.
Tomorrow is another day.
Keep us updated - we're here for you as your journey takes a new twist along the path.
On BD H52, W50 T27, M26 S21, D23 BD-9-Mar-16 D-15-Jan-18 Final-19-Apr-18 I am a storyteller. The story may do you no good. But a story is never for the listener. It is always for the one who tells
Ooops sorry I didn't know s@cks was a censored word
Yeah, it's weird that word is censored, but there are a few words that aren't. It if doesn't suck, but [censored], then it's okay. It blows instead.
M 55 W 52 MR 32 T 34+ D29 BD May 8, 2016 - She moved out ILYBNILWY May 15 (Through email) No EA/PA August 23 - DB used against me in every way Divorce July 18, 2017 - Life is getting better every day
Everybody, and I mean everybody thought I was stupid for trying to work my M. Even my D thought I was rushing into this. She kept saying, "Dad, you know Mom can be so mean if she wants to."
I didn't think she would do this to me.
Guess who the fool was? Hint, his initials are RDS
M 55 W 52 MR 32 T 34+ D29 BD May 8, 2016 - She moved out ILYBNILWY May 15 (Through email) No EA/PA August 23 - DB used against me in every way Divorce July 18, 2017 - Life is getting better every day
Really sorry to hear about this. It's just tragic that so many people can turn into something so awful. You should pay her monthly in pennies or something.....
Me: 35 W: 32 S: 4 T: 6 M: 4 Physical Separation official: 5/21 Currently: DR/DBing, Focusing on me and son
Cheating on a good person is like throwing away a diamond and picking up a rock.
Oh you are no fool. You are a good man. You have your principles and you stuck by your marriage.
The fool is the wicked witch screwing you over.
This beyond svcks. But just know you are a good person. And I hope some of this can be turned round.
Thanks Cherry. I don't want to be so sad, but I cannot believe how much pain I'm in. I thought her leaving me in May hurt, but it's nothing like what I'm going through now. The betrayal is immense. I was extremely honest with her the last few months and all the while she put it in her "bank" to use it against me.
I wish I could walk away from it all and say f*ck it. If I didn't have my darling daughter I would quit my job and go live on the streets. My brother is homeless and he seems happy enough.
M 55 W 52 MR 32 T 34+ D29 BD May 8, 2016 - She moved out ILYBNILWY May 15 (Through email) No EA/PA August 23 - DB used against me in every way Divorce July 18, 2017 - Life is getting better every day
Oh you are no fool. You are a good man. You have your principles and you stuck by your marriage.
You know Cherry, I've been following your sitch, and I wanted to comment so many times, but I didn't know what to say. I thought everything you're going through was beyond sad, and it is, but I have to give it to you, you seem to be handling it really well. Especially since you are pregnant.
M 55 W 52 MR 32 T 34+ D29 BD May 8, 2016 - She moved out ILYBNILWY May 15 (Through email) No EA/PA August 23 - DB used against me in every way Divorce July 18, 2017 - Life is getting better every day
That really bites! Your thread is scaring me now... we haven't talked D at all, but when it did come about in conversations months ago W said she wanted to go the co-operative route, I'm worried now that my letters and behaviors will backfire with me too.
Me: 40 W: 45 T: 13, M: 11 1 D: 9
Suspect A 6/15 ILBINILWY 8/15, and 3/16 EA/PA Discovered 3/16 EA admitted 3/16 W Moved out 4/16 W opens R talk and says A over 1/17
PacLove, I don't know for sure if my letters were used against me. I think what hurt me the most was I make much more than my W, she has had a couple of surgeries the last couple of months, and the judge saw discrepanices in my financial decleration. So she ruled HEAVILY in my W's favor.
But, I will say this, everything I had been doing the last couple of months she did try to use against me.
I'm NOT going to change. I hope to God I don't get to be this vindictive a**hole towards her. I now know every word and action I do will have to be with the understanding "anything you say can and will be used against you in a court of law".
M 55 W 52 MR 32 T 34+ D29 BD May 8, 2016 - She moved out ILYBNILWY May 15 (Through email) No EA/PA August 23 - DB used against me in every way Divorce July 18, 2017 - Life is getting better every day