Originally Posted By: ForGump
p.s. There must be a way to appeal, if there were technical errors, e.g., if they did not properly account for your January lump sum income.


The hearing today was for temporary spousal support. It's only good for 90 days and then we go to mediation (which naturally I have to pay). During mediation we will hash out all the details of the divorce payments. I expect the harsh payments to be alleviated somewhat then because I will have letters and other legal stuff backing me up, but since I'm required to pay my W's L fees I cannot afford to drag this out as I will in high probability be required to pay all attorney fees.

Seriously, my best option is to delay paying my credit card bills and after the mediation is final I will declare bankruptcy. I can't claim bankruptcy before then because the extra money I will have can be used against me as extra income. It's a stupid way of doing things, but it may be all I have.

My biggest burn is my W using all my goodwill against me. I mean ALL my DB'ing was put in her affidavit. I'm not sure if it swayed the judge, but just knowing my good work for myself my W thought she could use against me to prove how bad I was.

At one point I hurt deeply knowing my wife was destitute, now nothing would make me feel better than watch her break her neck in a freak accident.


M 55 W 52
MR 32 T 34+
D29
BD May 8, 2016 - She moved out
ILYBNILWY May 15 (Through email)
No EA/PA
August 23 - DB used against me in every way
Divorce July 18, 2017 - Life is getting better every day