Dear Cadet, Hi! I wondered why I couldn't find the post LOL . Now I know. As far as the decision to spend time (I have lots) energy (not so much) I guess I figured it would give me something productive to do even though it is so hard for me. I have even thought of trying to find someone to assist .
W-57,H-55 Married-32 years 3 kids S-30,S-28,D-25 EA / PA ? June 2015 Walked out ,moved in with OW 10/2015 moves back 1/2016 still in love with OW and moves out July 2016