Dear Cadet,
Hi! I wondered why I couldn't find the post LOL . Now I know. As far as the decision to spend time (I have lots) energy (not so much) I guess I figured it would give me something productive to do even though it is so hard for me. I have even thought of trying to find someone to assist .


W-57,H-55
Married-32 years
3 kids S-30,S-28,D-25
EA / PA ? June 2015
Walked out ,moved in with OW 10/2015
moves back 1/2016
still in love with OW and moves out July 2016