Hi all !
Just wanted to post a question. Since I am living alone due to husband moved out with
OW I have been thinking about going through things and purging and packing since we are looking to move me out of where we have been living.

I have a big problem with moving ( deep psychological scars )
The last time we moved my husband did most of the work .
One of the issues our marriage has suffered from is that I have too much clutter .

Because of these things purging / packing could be viewed as a healthy thing for me to accomplish on my own.
However it could also be Viewed by him as an attempt for me to drive him back into the
marriage.
Any thoughts or feedback or experience would be greatly appreciated ! !


W-57,H-55
Married-32 years
3 kids S-30,S-28,D-25
EA / PA ? June 2015
Walked out ,moved in with OW 10/2015
moves back 1/2016
still in love with OW and moves out July 2016