Dear Coconut,
I love that idea ! Boxing up his things and letting him know " it's tough not to have your things when you need them" he may not appreciate it though as the OW already has beautiful home of nice things . He has stated again and again how little he is able to get by with . She also threw out his clothes the last time she threw him out. Perhaps what I could do is box them and then tell him they're ready to go in the garage for storage.I am not sure if it would be better to allow him to store them in the garage are forced him to take them out. If I push to have the items removed,he may feel I am being aggressive.


W-57,H-55
Married-32 years
3 kids S-30,S-28,D-25
EA / PA ? June 2015
Walked out ,moved in with OW 10/2015
moves back 1/2016
still in love with OW and moves out July 2016