hey OFP, sounds very frustrating with the IC session. Because i don't remember (or maybe you havent said), who's idea was it to see your Wife's IC? Do you have any expectation of getting any clarity from that?
I've seen a couple of times you have posted that you choose not to spend time with people, but are happy to spend time with someone in a romantic fashion...have i read into that correctly?
are you comfortable hanging out with a group of guys, talking, hanging out, screwing around, that sort of thing? What about just you and someone else? you have listed a bunch of times you hanging out with female friends, but not male ones. There was a while where i didn't go out with anyone but my brothers (and even that was limited).
there wasn't anything wrong with that, after all it was my choice to make...i am just saying now, that i go hang out with different groups (guys, couples, mixed) i am having more fun than i could have ever imagined possible. looking back seams almost absurd to me that i hadn't done this sooner.