Thanks, Mr. Bond. I can see the truth in your statements.
We are going to our 3rd counseling session tonight, as a matter of fact.
So I'm just supposed to let it all go and not worry that W won't tell ow to stay away? To me, that's leaving the door open to a friendship or something. I don't really think they will ever get back together. That was a disaster from day one. Frankly, I guess I feel some need for revenge -- some way to see ow punished or in some way hurt by what she did. Instead, she's getting a big promotion and still thinks she can just claim her place next to my W. I don't know if I have what it takes to just let it go.

And as long as we all continue to work here, it will always be there. I can't escape it, and I feel like she's just laughing at me by continuing to seek out my W.


11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker
Reconciling since late April 2016
Don't give up until it's time, then move on
Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat