Originally Posted By: Luv1589
Dear CT1118,
I am very seriously planning to buy a home with him as I want to leave here where we have been renting.


Luv1589,

When I read that your WH offered to buy a home for you to live in, it made me think that he is making it even more difficult for you to leave him. I personally think this is a bad bad bad idea, I understand the desire to leave where you are, but I think that purchasing a home at this time will limit your choices in the future. I'm not saying you should or will leave him, I'm just saying that it's not a bad thing for him to realize you'll be alright without him and might leave him. If he knows your stuck, it will prevent him from feeling the loss of you.


M - 9 1/2 years
5/5/16 - Bomb drop - 3 week EA
10/31/16 - We sold house
01/10/18 - D Finalized