Newby here, desperate for some advice (thread 3)

[JRuss]

Thanks AndrewP -- I'm at least 50% these days, probably up around 58.7% if we were to get actuarial. She still does a ton, and we both collapse exhausted at the end of the day when the kids are in bed. She told me once relatively recently that she no longer thinks I don't pull my weight, which felt great to hear. I knew I'd addressed this particular complaint and had been feeling good about being more actively involved for some time, but it was nice to hear.

Neither one of us likes coq-a-vin, weirdly enough, but I have a few dishes I can hammer into submission.