Originally Posted By: Cld
Ginger1,

I just read a new study yesterday.
White females who come from broken homes are 90% likely to divorce themselves, more than any other group. Now you say that you are fighting for your marriage, but maybe you are the one who pushed your husband away by criticizing and complaining all the time, which is something men absolutely hate.


I should not even dare to go here. Do you have any idea how skewed statistics are? Very skewed.

And holy crap. actually, my ex criticized me, was down right verbally abusive to me, and he was the complainer. Nothing was good enough for him. When I spoke up for myself, that's when he decided to take on another woman who takes the abuse.

You are unbelievable, and no, I don't think your wife left because her parents divorced when her parents were 7 and she had because her daughter was 7.

It's clear it goes much deeper than that.

If you want ANY chance at saving your M, you better look deep inside yourself, and stop looking so hard into statistics.

Mr. Bond saved him M, not by sitting around waiting for his W to 'snap out of it" He became a man only a fool would leave. He looked inside, he did the work.