Newby here, desperate for some advice (thread 3)

[JRuss]

MrBond -- I'm trying to figure out what I can best do in the face of my W going to a shrink in town who has a reputation of helping women navigate the difficulties of divorce. Everything I've done to date -- most of it DB approved, albeit with setbacks -- has gotten me exactly here. I get that DBing goes on as long as I can keep making myself fight this fight, I get that I need to try to continue to be "The Lighthouse", but I'm wondering if there's anything else, like something [b]specific[b], I could do. My W has essentially hired a very expensive Validator who makes her money "supporting" women as the divorce their husbands. This is a big threat to me and my children. If you have anything helpful to add, please do, and I thank you in advance.