Mombear,

I am linking a thread...it isn't the one I wanted but it will work...

See if any of it resonates with you...

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=960393&page=1


"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox