Today is court day to determine spousal support. My W wouldn't settle. There would be no reason for her to settle. No matter what happens she is going to gain something, and on the same token no matter what happens I'm going to lose something.

If the settlement is in my favor (which I doubt) then my W will be pissed and will build the wall back up.

If the settlement is against me then I guess I'll learn to enjoy eating beans and rice for the foreseeable future. smile

M 55 W 52
MR 32 T 34+
D29
BD May 8, 2016 - She moved out
ILYBNILWY May 15 (Through email)
No EA/PA
August 23 - DB used against me in every way
Divorce July 18, 2017 - Life is getting better every day