FG, tepid is a good way of describing about how warm they are capable of getting nowadays. Who knows why she had the mood change though. No mind reading!
I understand the calm before the storm view. I'm going through that a lot nowadays. Seems like all you can do is ride it out though. Like a hurricane, you can't stop the winds, you can only find a place to hunker down before you come back out and start to rebuild.
Keep grinding forward though bud. You're not alone!
Me39 M11 : T13 D9 BD 5/31/16 In House S until 6/21/17 Divorced 10/5/18