Thank you roist, I'm struggling a bit to figure out what's best for me and the kids. Like I mentioned earlier, I look back and see my W growing distant on me and the kids over the last couple of years. I look back and see how me and the kids all felt it and started clinging to her more, feeing her moving away. The kids became very needy towards her and as I broke down, I know I did too. I know why she felt suffocated and it was from all of us. She feels it's just space from me that she is enjoying but I've still seen the disconnect to the children but I don't think she realizes that part. She hasn't been to one activity of the children's since she moved out. She has taken S7 to his football training most of the days as it fell on her day but other than that she hasn't gone to his tournaments or to his last day of school or D3 last day of kindergarten festival.
