I'm so sorry to hear this Buxom. Your health is of paramount importance now not your H, he is big and ugly enough to look after himself. You need to find your support network with or without him, put his issues on the back burner and focus on YOU. Hugs...

Me - 47
H - 45
D-16
M - 6 years
Separated - May 16

Don't leave me behind can't you see me I'm shining... (Years & Years - 'Shine')