I noticed you have taken a step back from here.Thst can be a good thing at times. It is good to focus on other stuff.

I hope all is well with you my friend and that when you are ready you will give us an update.Even a short one if you can do short!!!!

Best wishes

R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together