Hi Maybell, reading your posts above I would agree with others and relax back and enjoy the R as it is just now. I do think that seeking an ILY puts a pressure bar in there and there's no need to do that. Your guys seems invested in the R and is good to your kids, is affectionate to you and so on....relax and enjoy I would say...:-) xx
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus