Originally Posted By: JRuss
I ... never really internalized/understood was that our marriages really were truly dead by the time we got the news. Not in trouble or even in deep trouble, but dead. We're trying to use those electric paddles on something that was DOA before it ever got to the ER.


Clear!

Clear!

Clear!

Yep. Let's not fool ourselves. The odds are no good when you look at the whole lot of us as a collection.

But each case is just not knowable. We have to accept that each of our case is a known unknown.


Me: 50, MLC/WW 45
Young kids
Nov 2015: BD1
Apr 2016: BD2
Jan 2017: W filed
Feb 2017: D final