She's not completely out of the fog yet, is what it sounds like to me. She's not ready to take in how much it hurt you. She's still being selfish.

Were you able to stay calm? And yes, did the two of you see the counselor yet?

I'm sorry you're sick! That makes everything worse. I hope you get well quickly and that you can balance these conflicts with some positive interaction.

Also, maybe have someone over to bring you soup.

M 16 yrs, WH62, P54
3 adult blended kids
EA 11/13, BD1 6/14
PA fall 14, BD2 2/15
Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15
Separated 4/16
WH moved OW in 5/16
Divorced 6/15/17