I know it is probably just because my sitch is different and my W had the strength I guess you would call it to do the right thing and move out when she decided she had enough of being married and wasn't in love with me.
I just do not know how anyone could stand sharing a house let alone a bed with a W that is seeing another man! I know it's easy for me to say because I didn't have to make that choice but i would like to think I would be telling her to move into another room at the very least. Sandi talks about our W's having no respect for us how much respect is a W going to have if she knows she can stay in the same bed as her H while she's seeing someone else. Makes me sick.
Anyway just my thoughts. And again easier said then done I'm not in his sitch.
ME- 31 W-25 T-5 M-3 D2 ILYBNILWY and moved out - FEB16 W seeing someone else - JUL16