I can post on your thread since I don't want to hijack this one any further.
I will say again, that I did not "WAIT" for my W. I simply lived my life and did things that made ME happy. I stopped trying to think what she was doing or thinking and didn't walk on eggshells around her. I lived for me and not her. That's a mistake that many LBSs make after the bomb drop.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.