I ask myself the question all the time say she shows up says she's made a huge mistake and wants to work it out?
albac - interesting your thoughts are going this way. In late June my own W admitted that she had made a big mistake and when I said that I wished I could help her response was "it's all on me". A few weeks later she left presumably to work on that.
Admitting the mistake does not necessarily mean coming back. I often worry that my W thinks that things are broken beyond repair. Some days I myself wonder that too.
On BD H52, W50 T27, M26 S21, D23 BD-9-Mar-16 D-15-Jan-18 Final-19-Apr-18 I am a storyteller. The story may do you no good. But a story is never for the listener. It is always for the one who tells