Albac - 7 months in. Life goes on.

[albac]

not much has changed in my sitch but I feel a change in the wind.

My W started a university course on a whim without about 1 weeks thought of that and it's just starting to get serious. She mentioned on the phone yesterday it was getting very hard and she doesn't know if she can do it.

This is not my problem and I don't what her to fail at anything but I feel if this fails it will make her start questioning some of her decisions.

Anyway I asked the question on ForGumps thread about what would people do differently if no kids were involved as I ask myself that question a lot. But another question I ask myself a lot is what would I actually do if she wanted to come back and work on things and how does it make you feel?

I ask myself the question all the time say she shows up says she's made a huge mistake and wants to work it out? It changes my whole thought process in my head I go from wanting something so badly to I have no idea what I would do. And would I start questioning if it is actually what I want.

Interested to had people's thoughts on it