Luv1589 - you need to create a space for yourself to be calm in. If you can, tell H that he can only come to the house if he gives you advance notice and try to let his calls go to voice-mail so that you can deal with them when you are able to do it calmly.
You're in our prayers - sending healing your way. Be strong.
On BD H52, W50 T27, M26 S21, D23 BD-9-Mar-16 D-15-Jan-18 Final-19-Apr-18 I am a storyteller. The story may do you no good. But a story is never for the listener. It is always for the one who tells