Coping with it all on your own and showing your W you don't NEED her are big steps in the right direction in my opinion.
I know my W is surprised at times with how much I do and how I can handle things that stress her out by myself. She never says anything but you know when you can just tell? It's like "you took her and did all that by yourself?" And then it's just like this stare of damn you I can't do that.
This last week I have taken my D2 swimming a couple of times and yes just the two of us it is hard to get everything organized but like you RSG we find a way. My W wouldn't try it because it would be to hard without help.
Anyway I think less and less of day to day things now. I am looking 5 years down the track and where I want to be for my D2 it makes things so much clearer. My W thinks 2 minutes ahead and to hell with the consequences just wing it. I really want to make sure that when my D2 is old enough to decide where she wants to be that it's in my stable home.
Enjoy your day RSG. Stay strong.
ME- 31 W-25 T-5 M-3 D2 ILYBNILWY and moved out - FEB16 W seeing someone else - JUL16