What is the drugs issues with your D? Might need to give some history here. This needs tackling. Depending on how serious this might be the most important issues.
In terms of his R with OW. Not hat solid really. She kicked him out because he had not filed??? I guess she doesn't love home for better or worse then! I can't see a lot of longevity there.
In trims of him always calling and coming round; he is temp checking I believe.
Time to detach. Read Cadets link on this. His OW actions show we always want what we can't have. She pulled away, he went back....
Just opinion I am be no means a guru here. They will come.
Stay strong and try to detach from him. Stop being a puppet, his actions are making you react. Start by cutting the strings he holds to your feelings. He has not right to control how you feel. Stop letting him.
Surfer.
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