Hi all ,

I'm new here and struggling. My husband admitted in June 2015 that he had been in an affair for some time (approximately 2 yrs). We agreed to work on the marriage. I'm a Christian and love him so much and thought we could get through the betrayal.
In October he walked out with no warning whatsoever. I was devastated . I signed up for Michelle's telephone Coach and tried to GAL. In January he said he wanted to come back and work on the marriage. At this time our lives were derailed by our daughters drug addiction completely. Insanity and chaos was our daily life. The OW asked him to come back at the end of June 2016 and he said he loves her and wants a divorce.
A few weeks later she threw him out because he has not filed for divorce and I said since we are paying for this household and can't really afford two homes that he could move into the spare room. I left town for a week and she asked him back the day before I returned. Because he is always calling and coming around I wondered if I should try to do no contact.we have things to do with our lives and must communicate but should I limit it as much as possible? I also own "The divorce Remedy " if anyone has any idea how I can help. I am so tired of hurting . 😔💕


W-57,H-55
Married-32 years
3 kids S-30,S-28,D-25
EA / PA ? June 2015
Walked out ,moved in with OW 10/2015
moves back 1/2016
still in love with OW and moves out July 2016