I think we have to meet w/ L's so that we're not behind the information curve on this stuff. I believe my W tried to misinform (that's a nice word for it) me about the custody process when she thought I hadn't seen an L yet. She was taken aback when I told her that I had seen an L, and no, what she was telling me was not the way things worked. Stopped the conversation cold.
We need to be informed of the legal stuff, regardless of where we stand w/ our WWs. It seems like there's only downside to not being read up on it. I can thank AndrewP and my IC for really pushing me to get my L visits lined up and it turns out it was great advice.
I do know my true dad skills were lacking, but I also know that's not the case anymore. Every day I feel closer to my D and it's an amazing feeling! I'll give you the rundown on the waterpark after we go tomorrow! Appreciate your support Cheesyt!
Me39 M11 : T13 D9 BD 5/31/16 In House S until 6/21/17 Divorced 10/5/18
