I like your GAL activities. Are any of them new, or are you trying new things with the kids? I've found that there is an energy from doing new things and pushing past your previous limits that adds an extra energy to life.

And yeah, you have to stop looking over your shoulder to see if she's noticing. Focus on you and your kids. The watched pot never boils and all that.


Me: 44
H: 44
Kids: 20, 16, 16, and 10
Together/Married: 22 years
H announced he was emotionally detached and considering D: 4/4/16
H announced he is going to try to stay and reconnect: 5/1/16