Cheesyt, sounds like you're full of GAL activities, that's great bud!
That's rough w/ the texting. Good job pushing back on her to give you details though, as opposed to taking it at face value. I completely get the controlling stuff, as you've seen from my thread. Very difficult, but very necessary to address and manage through unfortunately.
Go ahead and get the bed. No point in being uncomfortable in the new living arrangements, regardless of how short/long they are. I wouldn't view it as "our" bed vs "my" bed, just merely as a means to a good night's sleep.
Hang in there brother and good luck w/ the L appointment. It's not the most pleasant thing, but as AndrewP told me, it at least gives you a realistic view of the process. My IC also equated it to me "catching up" with my WW who was already well ahead of me in this whole thing. Here to support you bud!
Me39 M11 : T13 D9 BD 5/31/16 In House S until 6/21/17 Divorced 10/5/18
