Just another thing I should mention, my wife on a few occasions has said that " I don't think your going to like the person I've become" when I ask her to describe in what way she won't explain.
Btw, is your oldest son still living at home? Does she see the youngest one on a regular schedule?
Have you remained faithful in attending and participating in the last church you joined? I just wonder how much of her is rebelling against God, Church, and H? Is her resentment toward the first church seem to pinpoint when her anger became more noticeable, or did it affect the MR?
Has she ever said that she felt pushed or pressured into the first church?
I suppose most of us feel that our situation is uniquely different from the others on the board. The outsider reading our personal story may see more similarity to others, easier than we can.
Did your W have a fairly normal childhood, or did she suffer any type of abuse? Can you think of something that happened before her A, that could have thrown her into an emotional crisis?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
