it helps her justify wanting to give all that *she knows and remembers* is good in our partnership.
Typo above. I meant to say:
It helps her justify wanting to give UP all that *she knows and remembers* is good in our partnership.
Anyway, the mix between "there really has been frustrations all along" and "WH is inventing frustrations to justify leaving" might be different in your situation.
Me: 50, MLC/WW 45 Young kids Nov 2015: BD1 Apr 2016: BD2 Jan 2017: W filed Feb 2017: D final