Hey,

Thanks for the quick response rich4j.

I really don't want to respond at all, I want to hide in a hole , run away avoid this at all costs. I want to follow the rules, keep it the way the S agreement is. If birthdays fall on my day then I have a birth day party with them. If not I have a party my day before his birthday.

I am getting worked up about this, its stressing me out. Even the grandparents thing is. I just don't want to deal with it.

This is adding stress to my life right now. I just want my kids when I get them, stop asking me to change things. UHG

Maybe I should just ask what she has in mind for a party.
Maybe I should ask for that time back that they will be with her Dad.


Me late 30's
W mid 30's
T 15, M 10
S4, S7
ILYBNILWY June 2015
In house S July 2015
W rings off Oct 2015
My ring off Feb 2015
Separate houses June 2016