I really don't want to respond at all, I want to hide in a hole , run away avoid this at all costs. I want to follow the rules, keep it the way the S agreement is. If birthdays fall on my day then I have a birth day party with them. If not I have a party my day before his birthday.
I am getting worked up about this, its stressing me out. Even the grandparents thing is. I just don't want to deal with it.
This is adding stress to my life right now. I just want my kids when I get them, stop asking me to change things. UHG
Maybe I should just ask what she has in mind for a party. Maybe I should ask for that time back that they will be with her Dad.
Me late 30's W mid 30's T 15, M 10 S4, S7 ILYBNILWY June 2015 In house S July 2015 W rings off Oct 2015 My ring off Feb 2015 Separate houses June 2016