That's right. Laws are different from place to place but where I'm from, the one that files is most motivated and ends up paying more. In my sitch, I will be stalling things as long as possible so that there is more time to let him come out of the fog.
Yeah I should just wait it out. As difficult as it is with her coming and going and trying to antagonizing me whenever she gets a chance. My worry is that once she has some money, she will talk to an attorney and change her mind on what we have agreed to.
