Current plan is to see what W says tonight, and if necessary retain an L. Hate taking that step, but I think the risks and lies are too great not to at least start protecting myself. W offered up nothing else on why she opened that CC at the bank last week.
I feel you. I have a meeting with a L today. First one. After I made the appointment I was in disbelief that this is actually happening. Which leads me to, why are we meeting with L's if that's not what we want? Some day's when I'm upset I think I should just slap her with D papers and be a jerk about it and kick her out of my life. (I think I may regret that though)
That water park looks neat! - There's one not too far from our location. Never heard of it. You are doing a great job at being a better Dad. One thing I read in some parenting book Is that We weren't bad parents, we were just different parents. Everyone and their mom has an opinion of what a great or good parent should be. I have to keep reminding myself that.
Great job taking care of you and your D! you're doing great!