I'm not sure. I've been in situations like that and I just said, we are voing/doing this, you can join if you want, otherwise we'll be back later. Invite, No pressure, his choice, his loss. If he does go, relax, show the fun side and keep a list of safe conversation items in mind. Hugs to you!
Me54 WH48 S18 D16 M 22 T 24 EA-PA-EA 2011-2015 Separated 10/14 - 06/15 BD1 02/14 BD2 05/16 BD3 08/21/16 and began drinking again Working on me and liking me again
