What I would add to what u say to s is this, it's not your fault, we love you, we are not getting on right now but we are working on making things better. No mention of divorce unless he asks. Trust me, I work with kids. Less is more while being open without details, if that makes sense?

As for the iPad, lock it so he has to have you unlock it and he doesn't get the surprises, you do.

Me54 WH48
S18 D16
M 22 T 24
EA-PA-EA 2011-2015
Separated 10/14 - 06/15
BD1 02/14
BD2 05/16
BD3 08/21/16 and began drinking again
Working on me and liking me again