Buxom,
That is exactly how I feel, insecure in starting conversations. Thank you for your feedback. I feel it is a small step in the right direction, but I am so afraid as well.

I wonder if it is too early to start inviting him to go places with me and D.

H: 48
W: 41
M: 12
D: 10
1st DB: 3/15/16
2nd DB/S: 4/2/16 - H moved out of bedroom
False Reconciliation: 7/17/16 - H moved back into bedroom