I would not do anything to help her. If she wants it, let her do it. This could come back to bite you later when she she says "you did this by getting the papers, what did I know I was sick". It could happen. Create a bubble of safety for u and kids and ride out the storm. Please stop making excuses for her and focus on you. She may be postmenopausal and have ssri complications but they are not excuses or reasons. Therefore going on and minimising it only hurts you more. I see your intentions are great and your pain greater. You didn't cause this, you can't fix it or control it, that's why focusing on you is best for everyone! Take good care, rooting for you.
Me54 WH48 S18 D16 M 22 T 24 EA-PA-EA 2011-2015 Separated 10/14 - 06/15 BD1 02/14 BD2 05/16 BD3 08/21/16 and began drinking again Working on me and liking me again
