But if theres no benefit in it from a legal perspective, then I think all you are doing is hurting yourself. If you know theres some kind of affair going on, then I think the tracking and spying will only serve to cause you pain.
It's my understanding Adultery is tough to prove in court. I have enough information to know for myself there is EA/PA.
BTW, I have gone on record here stating I will give it one year. If I cave in and file everyone needs to call me out.