I just want to make sure that this is the path you want to go down before I sign the agreement, by path I mean Divorce. It would take a lot from each of us to make us work, and a long time to get there, but I am willing to do whatever I can to save our marriage and be happy together.
???? I am a little confused when you say you don't want to save the M.
I can imagine she might be a little confused when you say you have no love for her, only anger, yet at the same time you said the above.
Look, I feel for you. It's crappy. You say you don't want her to admit she was wrong, you want her to see what she's done. You want her to feel bad. It's all semantics. you want to get her to see the light, but you do not hold that power. It's all up to her, and from experience, trying to get them to see that makes them blame you more. It's not your job to do.
I know you want to be able to say you did everything you could. But I think you just need to leave well enough alone now and not try to get her to see the light. It causes you anger and frustration. let her go. If she figures it out, she will do it in her own time. And yeah, maybe it will be too late then, but you can't change the process.
