btw, I've been doing really well for the last few days, even the day we had that text communication I was doing fine. I find myself looking more and more forward to moving to the country and looking forward to what I imagine my life will be.
also, just wanted to share that although we are still in the same house, we barely see each other, some days I don't see her at all and other days I see her at most 30 mins in a day (generally when one of us is coming or going from the house). But just in case, I have now moved almost all of my stuff, except for furniture that needs to stay for showing the house and clothes that I wear frequently, so I am able to completely move out of the house easily within a few hours if needed.
M - 9 1/2 years 5/5/16 - Bomb drop - 3 week EA 10/31/16 - We sold house 01/10/18 - D Finalized