Ill give my impression. Sounds like he was an 8 year asking mom to come sleep in his bed after having a bad dream.
Originally Posted By: Mombear
Should I have said no?
Can you explain why you said 'yes'? What was your goal?
Originally Posted By: Mombear
He knows where I stand, and that I love him and that I am not done with our marriage. So when he shows vulnerability, I feel wrong turning him down.
I think maybe this is where you should investigate into yourself?
WHY does it feel wrong to you? Sounds like you were hoping/expecting that this would be a step forward to healing your R. I think you should stop being SO clear about what you want when it comes to him.
