Pathway Change

[blueboy]

The full story has came out after I stupidly found away to access delete phone messages!

After my A 7 years ago, wife lost 7 stone over two years and is a stunning looking lady, she has alway been over weight all her life! This new image and confidence made her want to go out a lot with friends! She got lots of attention, after my A we felt with it ourselves, over time she decide without talking to me that I didn't really love her, or wanted her and felt rejected! That's my reason for being in M was children and I didn't really want her!

Of the group of friend she went out with one is know for having A's and they were all flirty, she got talking to OM1, she want to feel desired, wanted and to have attention! She has never slept with anyone else' either! So after talking to OM1 they decided to met and have sex. They meet at hotel and got on the bed, started to kiss, he's wife start to call him and he got cold feet and left! W was gutted as this was in her eyes being rejected again! So then pursed him, pictures, sex texting, and meeting him, which included BJ outside bar whist drunk! Final he told her he want to work iomn his M and stopped it, but keep in touch we off txt's! W felt totally rejected again.


OM2 was met afterwards, arranged for a meeting for lunch, but realised W was married and pull out, more rejection!

So W now feels rejected by me, OM1 and OM2, in a very dark place, along come OM3, a 59 old, single, ugly, short, with no money! Mets wife a bar, become FB Friends, by this point is desperate to be wanted! He's feels he has hit the jackpot,amazing looking women half his age, own business, fantastic life style, nice house, cars (He doesn't know the money is mine)! He declares undying love for W, sells her the dream, how he's coming to treat her like a queen, sold her loads of fantasy! Told her to leave me or he's wouldn't carry on, fearing more rejection she did what he wanted!

We she left see swore that she hadn't cheated on me sexually and had only had a EA, I know know this was crap!

W then realised she was still in love with me and had made a massive mistake and that really all he really wanted was sex!

She came back to me broken, and we agreed to reconcile, however I only know about OM3!!! Not OM1 or OM2

The new information has blown my mind, I no longer know what I want i.e stay married or D, I'm staying at the moment as the kids have been upset enough in the last 6 months!

I not sure I'm in love with her anymore other than share history, I have never thought of her as a bad person before, just a good person who made a mistake!

However I now see it as 2 x PA and 1 x EA, therefore not a mistake but I dicison that she was determined to cheat on me, can I really forgive that!