Thanks for the comments. I think a PA is quite likely based on circumstances but doesn't change much at this stage as she just won't break contact.
I'm working on detaching while being friendly.
Thanks for the support with not throwing in the towel. I second gump's motion.
- m and ww in 30s - s4 - m 11 yrs, t12 -ilybinilwy ~5/16 + request for OM - bd 7/16, confirm ea and strongly suspected pa - 9/16 ww claimed to have broken contact with om