I'll ask you a question I ask myself a lot. If you take your children out of the picture how do you see your thoughts and actions? The same or different?
I ask myself that question and think we'll without kids involved this person has broken my heart and treated me like a piece of trash. And I would want nothing to do with them. I then ask myself the question that is that's how I feel am I lying to myself or prolonging the inevitable by continuing down the path I'm on.
So many questions but I know I'm the same as you Gump. Our W's have no respect for us and I am slowly turning the tables on that because I am no longer afraid of losing her. She's already gone.
ME- 31 W-25 T-5 M-3 D2 ILYBNILWY and moved out - FEB16 W seeing someone else - JUL16