It's a tool they use by trying to bring you down to the same level. If you start hating them or getting angry it makes it far easier for them to justify the actions they are taking and feel less guilt.
Kill them with kindness so they feel all the guilt in the world. Don't drop down to their level if they get angry validate and stay calm.
ME- 31 W-25 T-5 M-3 D2 ILYBNILWY and moved out - FEB16 W seeing someone else - JUL16
